Have you been sobbing for days and mourning your recent break up? Well, you have good news! Does it hurt like hell? There is nothing that can bring equilibrium in your life except your lost love.
You might be thinking it to be crazy about feeling happy for your breakup, but there is indeed a special reason to be ecstatic and jubilant about. The best part of a break up is to win your ex back.
It’s not hard to come by heaps of reunited couples who are happier in their patched-up relation now. So, why do you be the exception? You can certainly win your ex back only after you two realise your mistakes and become a bit more matured. However, it needs the best course of action to win him/her back.
Are you contemplating on running to him/her right away and beg with pity? Not at all! This will certainly not help you in any way. You got to maintain your dignity and be humble in convincing him. Begging might drive him/her to be sympathetic for you and make you less appealing. You both might get back together in this way, but that would happen for the worst with a chance of potential break up. So, just be a bit reticent while discussing why you both got to be together again and how will you both work out the relation in a better way. Reconcile and win him/her back!
Instead of straightaway running to reunite your breakup, stay apart for some time and let your mind settle down. Remember, time is the best healer?
No jealous game
Understand the reason of the breakup and try working on the same. Do not drive him/her jealous by chatting over your new date. Well, that might mar the things even more and scupper the entire story. Grow up and behave like an adult. This is not a child’s game!
Drive him/her curious
Control yourself while chatting on social networking sites, answering his/her phone calls and texting him/her. Don’t think it to be mean and harsh; it’s for the better! It’s better to make your love curious, rather than jealous. Let him/her wonder about you and you get some more space to think about your ruined relation.
Try to be a bit romantic as that might help in some cases. Bring back those moments and stir up the great memories! It’s easy to rant and rave after breakup, but its lot easier to re-evoke those best times with your ex and discuss about the same with your love.
Bring your words into action! Stop nagging him/her with your sense of insecurity and making vague promises. Show him/her that you have actually changed for your love by making it evident, instead of simply dialling his/her number every 5 minutes.
Sorry, the most difficult word on earth can work wonder. There is nothing harm in apologizing and taking the lead. Show remorse if you genuinely feel it’s your mistake.
So, get to work and work out a happy love life!